re: wot
I hope you meant 'one should not do that' Haich, rather than 'one should do that'.......typos are soooo easy, i do it all the time...............
and I totally agree with you, there are good and bad in both sexes, I don't think I ever said that men were exclusively 'good' but neither are they wholly bad.
I reckon a quick look at most of my posting on this subject (or others of it's ilk) will show I tend to hold the middle ground on giving everyone the benefit of the doubt and not tarring everyone with the same brush....then again I'm not niave enough to think people actually 'read' what you say, they tend to just look for confirmation of their views.
But I really do get disappointed in the way both of the sexes use these fora (on here and other sites) to take out their anger because things went sour in a relationship...............and are very happy to point the finger of blame and suspicion.
I always felt these sites are an opportunity for new beginnings, to leave the past behind and start afresh.
Of course I've had bad experiences haven't we all (I don't know how many times I've said that on these threads).. ...
but hopefully, I don't drag them out and wave them under everyone's noses bleating 'poor me', it's very unattractive, if I do please point it out, that's not the kind of person I want to be..........chalk it up , learn the lessons and move on.
We all have our own little filters and crtieria and one for me is, I wont go anywhere near a bloke who's still crying about how badly he's been treated........and I certainly wouldn't touch one who posts threads saying what a bunch of shits women are...............................so it beggars belief that there seem to be such a lot of females who are happy to do this and think it's ok, why would any bloke go near a woman like that !!!!
