are there any honest men left out there in their late 40's early 50's?

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that is what i was thinking angel54

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are there any honest women left out there in their late 40's early 50's? 

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whats up with 38 what we done ha ha

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I think there are but we are outweighed by the time wasting sex maniacs

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Yes barry there are plenty of honest ladys in their 40s an 50s, im one lol but got me nowhere

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yes barry we are here its hard finding the honest person like linzz sais

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im early 40s and have the same probs ive been on other sites and have had not a lot of luck why ?its getting me down a bit its got that bad my daughter is setting me up with some of her mates mums how bad is that !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!any ideas?

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hi Angel54

im afraid the answer is no  - man and honesty is a contradiction in terms its just that some of us of the male species are more honest than others about our dishonesty - when it comes to women show me a man who has never lied and i'll show you a liar and a  hypocrite(as we all are)

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hi Angel54

im afraid the answer is no  - man and honesty is a contradiction in terms its just that some of us of the male species are more honest than others about our dishonesty - when it comes to women show me a man who has never lied and i'll show you a liar and a  hypocrite(as we all are)

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How can we ever trust then if all men lie ?

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you have to be wise  - we dont lie deliberatlely to hurt  women  - its just that we cant cope with the probing honesty of women and are non confrontational when it comes to women  and women tend to want  to talk out emotional and personal issues

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But you have to have communication in a relationship or it breaks down as mine did, silence is never golden.

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of course you do  the breakdown can happen when one or both partners is not prepared to compromise and make the attempt to understand the other - once mutual respect goes in a relationship , communication goes out the window and with most men , instead of getting the problem resolved by communication,the barriers go up instead as most men dont know how to talk to women

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Well said an so true,but whats so difficult about talking to a partner? i just dont get it? whats the alternative ?you split up?

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if you can unde-rstand that we come from a different direction and our motivations are different  for example men are naturally tightfisted lol and quite often women like to spend money - finding the compromise is difficult - instead of one partner condemning the other for his or her shortcomings we sometimes have to leave our own selves and attempt to step in the shoes of the partner - what is a small issue to one person may be a large issue to the other - can the person who thinks it is of no importance begin to empathise with the other and bring it to the table and discuss it as an important issue - its so hard to do sometimes as we feel we are losing ground if we give the matter credence

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1 can live in hope,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,but hope to much to ask for now days lol

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the more we want from each other the less we get.Dont expect anything then when you get something it will be a pleasant surprise as we can never live up to our partners aspirations for us

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yes to that ladies hows about me   genuine, honest. and reliable,  im 57 single  

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Theres not much left if u dont have hope,curly222,an old saying comes to mind....seek and ye shall find hahahaha,i know we keep seeking & dont find...but....thats where the hope comes in lol

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to linzz re 14 may :

not all of us do but it seems if you dont lie you dont get any whre  have you lied time to be honest?!

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no i dont lie im very honest,my daughter says im to honest an i tell people to much to soon but thats way i am

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people say im to honest for my own good but it aint got me far  but aint going to start lieing now  cant lie to save my life lol

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hi i think that age is just a number its how you feel inside that counts so what if your fifty or over forty if a guy like me whos 38 wants to date an older lady to hell what people say.i think an older person is more aware of their surroundings than someone who is under 30

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Good point Nightcaller. I tend to go for the older gent as i think they are more settled in life and out of the club scene.............................. well most of them lol

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honest man here looking for the same. now, thats a hard task too. seems to be on both sides

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done the pubin and clubin not my scene now although still like going out . ur right age is just a number its chemistry  and understanding that matters

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I am honest, I'm single (well separated for nearly a year) I've been on other sites and its the same all over. there are so many people both male and female telling lies about there marital status (mostly men on this one) and what they are looking for .  Now the women dont believe anyone and I'm not sure what I'm looking for now......... confused........... me too. age dosen't seem to make any difference to honesty.

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Honesty, it is like an Orchid rare and beautiful, but hard to find and nurture.

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you want honest, david, 56, been on my tod for 4 years

pity my ex wasnt so honest

new m.o.t.

good runner

just the one careless owner

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yes there is and im over here

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Hi, having just joined I'm trying to navigate around- bumbling along it seems.  What's your view?

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I think we all are seeking something to enhance our lives, reading the above it seems far less easier than first imagined.

Love the day, appreciate the hour and ooh yes smile ...

Honesty is there in any  age group but so is dishonesty - cut wheat from chaff and you've won!

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My reply to spanker is that is describing all men to be vertually the same ad that does not say much for the male species, i thought that all men are indeviduals just like us women were not all the same.

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i agree with petesden trouble is lot of lasses think if you come on here your either desperate or a player

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Honesty! If a person male or female have to live in a make believe world to impress others the trouble is they start to belive their own illusion after a time....Honesty should be the norm, which trust is bulit upon .But that is the hardest thing to find on most chat site as there is no body language  or eye contact , we only have the written word and most liars can tell a good story ,,but in the end they get caught out,but they take others down with them , Then we all get classed the same ..and it not just men as i have just found out recently to my own cost !!

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lots of liars and cheats,  on any dating site, and its not just the men either, it works both ways.  But just make them prove themselves first, and nothing lost.   dont take what they say as gospel , get to know them first.

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There are plenty of us out here but don't confuse honesty with what you want to hear.  I am always totally honest butmost people dont like the truth.

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Hmmm interesting reading, yes there are honest men and women out there.........you just gotta find them, this does'nt just apply to late 40's early 50's either, even 60+ are dishonest, like many of you i have tried several dating sites and they are all much of a muchness, i also agree that age can be immaterial, if you gel and get on, it does'nt matter what other people think, i never lie about my age (67) or myself, what is the point i am what i am and you cannot undo age, but maybe one day i may find my "knight in shining armour" LOL

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Age is nothing if your honest you are if your not your not lol?

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nope i will never trust again..been thru this shit too many times.....

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Now now janeybird dont tar use all with the same brush,xxx

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are there any honest women out there at any age.doesnt seem like it lol.its one big game a good one at that.i salute you.better liars than the government.keep it up i will vote for you

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there seems to be a pattern emerging here most woman feel men are un-trustworthy and most men think woman are un-trustworthy. Heck it's a suprise any one is in a relationship. I reccon it is down to the indervidual as to how trust worthy they are. I'm 26 and have had nothing but un-trustworthy woman in my life even if you are a trustworthy person most seem to think that you only say you are and are probably lying. i never tar every woman with the same brush if i were to meet a new partner tomorrow then i would trust her 100% but if that trust is betrayd then thats it the relationship is over the point i am trying to make is live life for today and ignore the past that has hurt you thats my to pences worth any way.

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Isn`t it wrong to judge someone by someone elses short comings? You have to treat people as individuals...find out for yourself and ignore the rumour mongers...

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depends   i could as the same  about women  it depends  on the  indivdual  if there  honest  or  not

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Hi, me, me, me, I'm for sale if you've got forty-six pence to spare.  I can also cook, make the bed, use a vacuum cleaner, get the shopping, change nappies, not my own I might add, breakfast i bed, and a peck on the cheek if you treat me right.  Sadly, I am toooooooooooooo old, sob.  Dave

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Of course there are decent men and women, as Vanzan said.............stop judging everyone based on the bad experiences you've had..............if you're constantly assuming all the population behave badly because you've had a bad expereince you're misleading yourself............., and of, course, everyone must include your self!

EVERYBODY has had bad experiences, EVERYBODY has had great experiences.

These dating sites seem to be like prisons........everybody is innocent,......... nobody has every lied, or betrayed their other half....it's always someone else.................

Maybe if you keep having bad experoences, then check out what you've been doing 'behaviour breeds behaviour'. I've never started a relationship before the previous one has ended, realistically how many people do that, or is it more like you have the next one lined up before you jump ship.

And AJM is so right, people don't really want honesty, they want things to be the way they want and want to hear what they want to hear................and when someone says something they don't like, albeit honest, they get labelled a cheat/liar/nasty if piece of work..............when you're wife/husband/lover says 'I don't want to be with you anymore' they're being honest.

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Just look at the pic to the left......................now that's the face of an honest man, is it not ? 

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i have to say most of us male or female have been hurt ,used ,lied to at some time in the past ,but i say and always have i will trust someone till they prove me wrong ,i refuse to tar men all the same none of us are perfect ,so were are all these georgous 40 to 50 yr olds ok and 38 if yr gorgeous as well ,and i dont just mean in looks .x

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I personaly think there are more honest women that men,but thats just my opinion .I havn't been proven wrong yet .

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how old to old  nexus 333 ?

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I hope there are some descent ones left I am here anyway

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dont we all

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Well everyone on this thread seems to be angelic and looking for the same thing, how about starting emailing each other!

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hey thats a good idea ,lol